The Life of a Young Girl With a Married Man

 1. The girl want to pursue education, have a job, lead a decent life and be able to meet her own needs. She is determined to be a liberated and independent woman. The future is bright.

2. The girl meets a handsome man but married. She is spoilt, promised a marriage and a good life. (I will divorce her and marry you. I married her when I was immature. She is not beautiful like you. She is not learned. We are even together because of children.)

3. The hyped innocent girl is taken to a trip to Mombasa, then to Kisumu, then to Nanyuki ranches and to all nice places.

4. The girl enjoys regular weekend road rides.

5. As a girl you cannot walk with a married man and miss a day or two at the coastal beach or shores of Lake Naivasha or Lake Nakuru. Let me not mention Impala Park at the shores of Lake Victoria.

6. Married men are romantic. At the top of the list are romantic dinners. As a girl you cannot miss to feast at one or two of the Five Star hotels.

7. The foundation of a relationship between a married man and a young girl is mutual benefits. But in the process the girl becomes pregnant (Siku ya mganga hufika). The girl in happy moods announces it but the reception turns soar.

8. The girl is left at the Lodge. Who will pay for it?

9. This is the time poverty back at home stares at the girl.

10. As the prodigal son, the girl decides to go back to her mother. A mother who she could not heed her words. But, a mother is always a mother.

11. At her mother's kitchen she realizes no one now wants to be associated with her. All men, young, married and old, who used to call her and request for a day out have gone mute. Her expensive smartphone from the married man is now used to check alarm or what time it is. No one is even calling to buy her tea at the local kibanda.

This life...